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Local Resources

  • Food Security Resources

    1. Food Bank of Central & Eastern North Carolina

    2. Catholic Parish Outreach Food Pantry

      • Address: 2013 Raleigh Blvd, Raleigh, NC 27604  |  Website: catholiccharitiesraleigh.org

      • Contact: 919-873-0245

      • Description: Food pantry service for Wake/Johnston/Franklin counties; good for those who have transportation. 

    3. The Salvation Army of Wake County – Food Pantry

      • Address: Judy D. Zelnak Center of Hope, 1863 Capital Blvd, Raleigh, NC 27604  |  Website: southernusa.salvationarmy.org/wake/food-pantry

      • Contact: 919-834-6733

      • Description: Offers food bags for qualifying households, also community kitchen meals. Good for those who are needing immediate food and safety support.

    4. Dorcas Ministries (Cary & Morrisville) 

      • Address: 187 High House Rd., Cary NC 27511 |  Website: https://dorcasnc.org/how-we-help/assistance/

      • Contact: 919-469-9861 

      • Description: Offers food pantry services in Cary and Morrisville, and you must apply online beforehand.

    5. Garner Area Ministries

    6. Community of Hope Food Pantry

    7. Urban Ministries of Wake County Food Pantry

      • Address: 1390 Capital Blvd Raleigh, NC 27603  |  Website: urbanmin.org/services/food-pantry/

      • Contact: 919-746-0088 

      • Description: Offers food pantry support up to once a week. 

    8. Tri Area Ministry Food Pantry

      • Address: 149 E Holding Avenue Wake Forest, NC 27587  |  Website: triareaministry.com 

      • Contact: 919-556-7144 

      • Description: Offers food pantry services and personal hygiene products.

    9. Showers of Blessing Food Pantry

Books

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The Whole-Brain Child

A Game-Changer for Conscious Parenting
The Whole-Brain Child is an insightful, science-backed, and refreshingly practical guide for anyone looking to parent more effectively and empathetically. Dr. Daniel Siegel and Dr. Tina Payne Bryson do an exceptional job of translating complex neuroscience into relatable tools that can be applied to everyday parenting challenges.
What sets this book apart is its focus on integration—helping children connect the different parts of their developing brains so they can handle their emotions, communicate better, and grow into more balanced, resilient individuals. The authors don’t just explain how the brain works—they show you how to use that understanding to respond, not just react, in high-stress parenting moments.
The 12 strategies offered are simple, memorable, and actionable. Tools like “Name It to Tame It”, “Connect and Redirect”, and “Move It or Lose It” are not only effective with kids but often helpful in adult relationships too! Each chapter includes real-world examples, cartoons to illustrate the concepts, and practical tips you can start using immediately.
Whether you're raising toddlers or teenagers, this book provides a compassionate roadmap for helping kids make sense of their world—and for becoming a calmer, more connected parent in the process. It's also a fantastic resource for educators, therapists, and caregivers who work with children.
In short, The Whole-Brain Child is more than just a parenting book—it's a toolkit for building stronger relationships and healthier minds. A must-read for anyone who wants to raise emotionally intelligent and mentally strong kids.

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The happiness trap

A Life-Changing Approach to Real Happiness
The Happiness Trap by Russ Harris is one of those rare self-help books that doesn’t promise a quick fix—but instead offers something far more powerful: a fundamental shift in how we relate to our thoughts, feelings, and the pursuit of happiness itself.
Based on the principles of Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), this book challenges the modern myth that happiness means always feeling good. Harris skillfully explains that the relentless quest for constant happiness often backfires—trapping us in cycles of anxiety, self-doubt, and disappointment. Instead, he shows how embracing life’s full emotional range can lead to deeper, more lasting satisfaction.
What makes this book stand out is its down-to-earth tone, clear explanations, and practical tools. Whether you're dealing with anxiety, stress, low self-esteem, or just feeling stuck, the strategies Harris shares—like defusion, acceptance, mindfulness, and values-based action—can be applied immediately and effectively.
The book doesn’t ask you to “think positive” or suppress uncomfortable emotions. Instead, it teaches you how to make room for them while still living a rich, meaningful life. The writing is warm, nonjudgmental, and deeply human—making complex psychological concepts feel accessible and relatable.
If you’ve read lots of self-help books but still feel stuck, this one might just be the game-changer. The Happiness Trap doesn’t just help you feel better—it helps you live better.

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A Compassionate Guide to Calming the Storm Within

Calming the Emotional Storm by Sheri Van Dijk isn’t just another self-help book—it’s a lifeline for anyone who feels overwhelmed by big emotions, anxiety, or stress. Instead of offering quick fixes, it provides a clear, practical roadmap for learning how to navigate emotional intensity with greater ease and self-compassion.

Grounded in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) and mindfulness, Van Dijk breaks down complex strategies into simple, actionable steps. From emotion regulation skills to mindfulness practices, every chapter is filled with tools you can start applying immediately—whether you’re new to DBT or simply looking for a healthier way to respond to life’s challenges.

What sets this book apart is its warmth and accessibility. Van Dijk’s writing is clear, compassionate, and never shaming. She validates the experience of feeling deeply while guiding readers toward practical ways to “ride the wave” of their emotions without being swept away.

With real-life exercises, relatable examples, and a gentle yet empowering tone, Calming the Emotional Storm makes it possible to move beyond surviving your emotions to actually thriving with them.

If you’re on a healing journey—or just seeking more balance in your everyday life—this book is more than helpful. It’s transformative.

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A Groundbreaking Look at Thriving with ADHD

ADHD 2.0 by Drs. Edward Hallowell and John Ratey offers a refreshing, hopeful perspective on attention differences. Instead of framing ADHD as a flaw, the authors present it as a unique kind of brain—one brimming with creativity, energy, and potential when given the right support.

Blending the latest neuroscience with decades of clinical insight, this book redefines how we understand ADHD. Concepts like VAST (Variable Attention Stimulus Trait) and the default mode network shed light on why ADHD brains work the way they do, while practical tools—such as building a “stellar environment,” fostering movement, and prioritizing mindfulness, connection, and purpose—help readers thrive, not just cope.

What makes ADHD 2.0 stand out is its compassionate and encouraging tone. Rather than focusing on “fixing” ADHD, it empowers individuals, parents, and educators to embrace differences and harness strengths. The strategies are both practical and inspiring, making the book an invaluable resource for families, professionals, and anyone living with ADHD.

More than a manual, ADHD 2.0 is a guide to seeing ADHD through a new lens: one where challenges become opportunities and every brain is recognized for its brilliance.

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Transform Conflict into Connection despite ADHD

The ADHD Effect on Marriage by Melissa Orlov explores how ADHD symptoms—distractibility, impulsivity, forgetfulness—can create painful cycles of misunderstanding and resentment between partners. Orlov shows that it’s not just the symptoms but the reactions to them that strain relationships, leading to patterns of frustration, blame, and emotional distance.

Drawing on research and practical guidance, she outlines a six-step approach to break these patterns: fostering empathy, addressing hurt and anger, seeking appropriate treatment, improving communication, setting healthy boundaries, and rekindling connection. With a compassionate and hopeful tone, the book offers couples a clear path to rebuild trust and intimacy, proving that with understanding and new strategies, love and partnership can thrive alongside ADHD.

More than a relationship manual, it’s a roadmap for healing—helping partners rediscover each other and create a marriage defined by support and shared growth rather than symptoms.

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A Whole-Body Take on Healing Trauma

The Body Keeps the Score is a groundbreaking exploration of how trauma profoundly affects the brain and body—and how healing requires more than just talking therapy. Dr. Bessel van der Kolk, a leading trauma expert, combines decades of clinical experience with cutting-edge neuroscience to reveal the hidden ways trauma imprints itself on our bodies and minds.

The book shines a compassionate light on the invisible wounds trauma leaves behind, showing that memories and pain often live not just in the mind but in the body’s nervous system. It presents innovative, holistic approaches to healing—such as mindfulness, yoga, neurofeedback, and somatic therapies—that reconnect people to their bodies and restore a sense of safety and control.
What makes this book truly powerful is its blend of scientific rigor with deep empathy, providing hope and practical tools for survivors, clinicians, and anyone interested in understanding trauma’s lasting impact. It emphasizes that recovery is possible by nurturing the brain-body connection and reclaiming one’s life beyond trauma.

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A Profound Look at Trauma's Generational Affect

It Didn’t Start with You offers a profound and eye-opening exploration of how trauma doesn’t just affect one generation—it can be passed down through families in subtle, powerful ways. Mark Wolynn uncovers the hidden legacy of inherited trauma and shows how unresolved pain from our ancestors shapes our emotions, behaviors, relationships, and even health.

Blending cutting-edge science with compassionate storytelling, the book introduces practical tools to identify and heal these inherited wounds. Through exercises that promote awareness, connection, and self-compassion, Wolynn empowers readers to break free from destructive patterns and reclaim their lives.
What makes this book truly impactful is its hopeful message: even if trauma began long before our time, healing is possible. By understanding our family histories and the unconscious influences they carry, we can end the cycle and create a healthier future for ourselves and generations to come.

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Empower Yourself with "Let Them"

In her latest groundbreaking book, The Let Them Theory, Mel Robbins—New York Times bestselling author and one of the world's most respected experts on motivation, confidence, and mindset—teaches you how to stop wasting energy on what you can't control and start focusing on what truly matters: YOU. Your happiness. Your goals. Your life.
Using the same no-nonsense, science-backed approach that's made The Mel Robbins Podcast a global sensation, Robbins explains why The Let Them Theory is already loved by millions and how you can apply it in eight key areas of your life to make the biggest impact. As you listen, you'll realize how much energy and time you've been wasting trying to control the wrong things—at work, in relationships, and in pursuing your goals—and how this is keeping you from the happiness and success you deserve.
Written as an easy-to-understand guide, Robbins shares relatable stories from her own life, highlights key takeaways, relevant research and introduces you to world-renowned experts in psychology, neuroscience, relationships, happiness, and ancient wisdom who champion The Let Them Theory every step of the way.

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A Life-Changing Guide to Setting Healthy Limits

Boundaries is a transformative guide that empowers readers to establish healthy limits in various aspects of life, including relationships, work, and personal well-being. Drs. Cloud and Townsend delve into the importance of setting boundaries, emphasizing that doing so is not about being selfish but about taking responsibility for one's own life and well-being.
The book addresses common challenges individuals face when setting boundaries, such as guilt, fear of rejection, and the desire to please others. It provides practical strategies for overcoming these obstacles, offering insights into how to communicate boundaries effectively and assertively.

This updated edition introduces new content addressing contemporary issues such as digital boundaries, online relationships, and the impact of technology on personal well-being. It also integrates biblical principles, offering a spiritual perspective on the importance of boundaries in living a fulfilling life.

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Using Knowledge to Build a Marriage That Lasts

The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work by Dr. John Gottman is a research-based guide offering practical strategies to strengthen relationships. Drawing on over four decades of study, Gottman identifies seven key principles that foster emotional intimacy, mutual respect, and lasting connection between partners.

The book emphasizes understanding your partner’s inner world, cultivating admiration, responding to bids for connection, sharing power, addressing solvable conflicts kindly, navigating deeper, ongoing disagreements, and creating shared meaning through rituals and goals. With a compassionate and practical approach, it provides couples tools to build resilience, deepen connection, and celebrate the joys of partnership.

More than a manual, it’s a roadmap for building a marriage that thrives over time, helping couples move beyond patterns of frustration or disconnection to create a partnership grounded in understanding, trust, and shared purpose.

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A Powerful Tool to Teach Kids About Feelings

A Little SPOT of Emotion 8 Book Box Set by Diane Alber is a thoughtfully designed collection aimed at helping children aged 3–7 understand and express their emotions. Through engaging narratives and vibrant illustrations, each book introduces a different emotion—such as anger, anxiety, happiness, sadness, love, confidence, peacefulness, and a mix of all emotions—personified as colorful "SPOTs." This approach makes complex emotional concepts accessible and relatable for young readers.

The set serves as a valuable tool for parents, educators, and therapists, providing a gentle yet effective way to initiate conversations about feelings. By personifying emotions, the books encourage children to recognize and name their feelings, fostering emotional intelligence and empathy. The accompanying plush toys, available separately, further enhance the learning experience by allowing children to physically engage with the emotions, reinforcing the concepts introduced in the stories.

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Creative Way to Teach Kindness and Compassion

The Food Group 6-Book Collection by Jory John and Pete Oswald is a delightful series of children's books that personify emotions and behaviors through relatable food characters. Each story offers a humorous yet insightful exploration of personal growth, kindness, and self-acceptance, making complex concepts accessible for young readers.

The collection features beloved titles such as The Bad Seed, The Good Egg, The Cool Bean, The Couch Potato, The Smart Cookie, and The Sour Grape. Through these engaging tales, children learn valuable lessons about embracing individuality, the importance of self-care, the value of kindness, and the power of positive change. Recognized for its humor and warmth, the series is a favorite among educators and parents alike.

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A Deep Dive Into Healing Our Inner Child

Kelly McDaniel introduces the concept of “Mother Hunger” to describe the deep yearning that arises when maternal care is inconsistent or missing. She explains that when a child’s essential needs for nurturance, protection, and guidance are not fully met, the impact can carry into adulthood, shaping emotional well-being, self-worth, and relationships.

McDaniel explores how this absence often shows up later in life as chronic emptiness, difficulties with boundaries, or repeated struggles in relationships. Many seek to soothe the void through external means such as food, work, or unhealthy attachments, but the underlying longing remains. She underscores that this is not a disorder, but a relational wound rooted in unmet needs and disrupted attachment.

The book offers a pathway for healing that includes acknowledging and naming what was lost, practicing self-nurturance, cultivating safety, and seeking healthy guidance through reparative relationships. McDaniel emphasizes that healing happens in connection, not isolation, and often requires grief work to honor the pain of unmet needs. Through this process, individuals can move toward greater self-understanding, compassion, and the capacity to create healthier bonds.

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A Simple Story with a Deep & Timeless Message

Shel Silverstein’s The Giving Tree tells the story of a tree that loves a boy and gives generously as he grows. As a child, the boy plays under the tree, swings from her branches, eats her apples, naps in her shade. Over time he returns, each visit marked by a greater need: first for money, then a house, then a boat. The tree gives of herself freely until she is reduced to a stump, still offering what remains—a place to sit.

The relationship between the tree and the boy becomes a metaphor for love, sacrifice, and the passage of time. The tree’s willingness to give without asking for anything in return raises questions about selflessness and whether there is a cost to giving too much. Meanwhile, the boy’s growing requests reflect adult desires and changing needs, though not always awareness of the impact of those needs on others.

In the final moments, when all material gifts are gone, the boy—now old—returns simply wanting rest. The tree, though drained, still has enough to offer: companionship and presence. Silverstein leaves the reader with a bittersweet sense that true giving isn’t always about grand gestures, but about being present even when you feel you have little left.

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